We all want our special someone to be in the mood for sex. The fact is, humans generally are not always in the mood. We have children, jobs, everyday life stresses that keep us in another stratosphere far, far away from the blissfulness we yearn for. When the time for peace and quiet arrives, we can be so tightly stressed, that we can't relax enough to switch gears and fling ourselves into sensual oblivion.
What to do when you're ready, and she's not? This particular angle is something you can use to ease her day, and get her started on the right foot for the next day. Men, get your cooking mitts on and stoke up the oven (in the kitchen that is). If you're creative enough to dress up a nice plate setting with candles, that's wonderful. If not, then be sure your food is tasty enough for her consumption, or you will nursing blueberries in your pants. Keep in mind, all of this should be consumed in moderation, as some may actually result in the opposite of what you are trying to achieve.
RELAX, with red wine and its soothing luscious color. No more than 2 glasses please! You're wanting to relax her in preparation for hot sex, not knock her unconscious. This will prep her to fully enjoy the rest of what is to come.
Serve her any number of entrée's from filet mignon, oysters, shrimp. A side of asparagus would fit just fine into this hot mix since asparagus is also an aphrodisiac! What is super nice, is for you to cut her meat for her and feed her (the first bite only) so you can watch her expression as she savors your feast. Take note that she may start to let out some sensual moans at this point.
The next course to serve is dessert and perhaps a smidgen of coffee, especially if you over-served the red wine. Have a bowl of fruit consisting of figs, strawberries, and pineapple already cut and prepared, along with some melted chocolate. We all know chocolate by itself is an aphrodisiac. But to dip strawberries (also known as fruit nipples), into chocolate and sensually feed them to her, is sure to have her hand sliding up your leg. Let her feed you too! It's just as sensual for her as it is for you. Sweet figs and pineapple round out the selection. You can even prepare fruit chunks on a skewer and have her pull them off with her tongue!
So you see, sex doesn't always start in the bedroom. Hot sex can start right in the kitchen, and in some cases, take place on the kitchen floor... or counter top. Bona petit!
