1. Body Language. Use your body to say what your words cannot or should not. You can tell a girl you like her by how close you stand to her. If you stand too far away, you will give off the notion that you do not like her. You also want to take care not to stand too close to her, at least at first. Girls get creeped out by guys who invade their personal space too quickly. You should also take care not to make any unnecessary movements as you are talking to her. If you twitch or fidget, you will be telling her you are nervous, which puts her in a power position.
2. Frame Control. If you want to get the girl to do what you want, you have to get her to see the interaction through your frame. You want to control the qualifying, you want to control the questions, and you want to control the escalation. To do this, you need to show her that your view is better than hers or to convince her to see things your way.
3. Do Not Be Reactive. Only you can control how you react to another person's words or actions. If a girl reacts in a way that is opposite the way you want her to react, it is important for you to only react internally. Do not let her see that her reaction threw you off your game. This will allow her to gain some power in the interaction. Instead, internally make adjustments to your approach and keep an even keel outwardly.
4. Walking In. It is important that you make yourself noticed in the group that includes the girl you are interested in. Only by becoming the center of attention in this group will you be able to eventually isolate her and escalate the interaction.
5. Role Playing. Assigning a role to yourself and to the girl is a fantastic way to insinuate yourself into her future plans. Act as if it's a foregone conclusion that you and she will end up together and she will begin to accept it as a reality.
