Female ejaculation, is it real or perhaps just a golden shower? I have asked many men, of all ages, if they have had a partner who ejaculates when she orgasms? I have discovered that more men in their 20's are likely to say yes and mature males in their 40's are least likely to have experienced female ejaculation with their partner. Mostly guys will say that they have only seen female ejaculation when they have watched a porn film.
There is a lot of controversy about female ejaculation, however female ejaculation is real and with practice every women can experience intense and emotional all-body orgasm with ejaculation.
Does a female have the sexual anatomy to ejaculate?
At human conception and up to eight weeks gestation, all human foetal development, male and female, begin life with female genital characteristics. At eight weeks gestation the male foetus, Y chromosome activates and begins to produce its own male hormones and male genital characteristics. Only then does the physical development of the male and female foetus change.
This means that the tissue that awakens at eight weeks gestation into the male prostate gland, is already present in the female foetus. Does it now make sense that the female anatomy has a prostate gland also? Female ejaculation is not urine. FE is actually near the exact chemical makeup as prostatic fluid; minus the sperm. The female prostate is also known as the female g-spot.
Every woman can ejaculate, small or large quantities and open to FE at her own pace. It is recommended that adult females learn to ejaculate on their own at first. Once a woman has successfully ejaculated by herself, then she will have more success ejaculating with a partner. Here are some reasons why a woman may have difficulty learning to ejaculate.
(a) A Strong PC Muscle. A women cannot ejaculate if she has weak PC muscles. The PC muscle is a long muscle that supports the pelvic floor between the pubic bone and the coccyx. A loose vagina is not a sign that a woman has slept around, it just means that her PC muscles are weak from lack of exercise. Successful female ejaculation will not be achieved until her PC muscles are tightened and strengthened. If her vagina feels loose during intercourse, that's a sure sign that she needs to do PC muscle exercises.
(b) Her attitude towards ejaculation. Letting go and allowing the body to ejaculate is very difficult for most women to master. A woman will have a hard time ejaculating if she is afraid she is going to urinate on her partner or if she is unsure whether her partner may enjoy the experience.
(c) Deep-seated sexual issues. Awakening the G-spot can bring up all kinds of emotional issues for a woman. It is not uncommon for a woman to shut down abruptly once she begins learning to open to female ejaculation. Past negative messages and sexual assault can close down a woman's capacity to express emotions, love and intimacy, therefore making it hard for her to allow her body to open up, surrender and trust sexually.
It can take some practice, to learn how to tease and arouse the female prostate and vagina to awaken the female body to the experience of vaginal orgasms that are accompanied by female ejaculation. G-spot and vaginal orgasms aren't nearly as common as clitoral orgasms, so it may take patience to find and connect with the G-Spot.
Slow foreplay is best to allow the female body to relax into a slow and teasing build up. Ladies, breathe slowly and deeply and give your body permission to succumb to pleasure. Some clitoral stimulation is okay; however the major focus should be on stimulating and awakening the female g-spot. Practice makes perfect, be kind to yourself if your G-Spot is slow to awaken to pleasure and remember every women's body awakens to female ejaculation and more pleasure at its own pace. Female G-spot stimulation and ejaculation can be an exciting new pleasurable experience, for any woman, who would like to experience a whole new level of pleasure for herself and her lover.
